Self Respect 1Self respect, be true to yourself! I have to write about this. There comes a time in life we all need to face ourselves. Face the facts of life itself. This is going to be somewhat hard for me to write and share this because I am also repositioning myself in life. Sometimes the right things to do in life isn’t going to be fun or even enjoyable. However, they are the right thing to do. Please bare with me here as I share my thoughts to help you to grow as an individual.
Everything we do in life is because of a choice we had made, Wheather that choice was knowingly or unknowingly.

Every choice has its own consequence. Sometimes in life, we can make a bad choice not knowing it was a wrong choice. When that happens, we need to forgive ourselves and correct it and move forward. Again, this may not be fun or enjoyable at all. The reason I share this with you is because we need to recognize that we  are no good to anyone if we are not caring for ourselves.

As an individual, we all have much value and worth. We need to recognize this and know it. It is “VITAL” we take care of ourselves. You are the only you, you have! Again, your are no good to anyone else if you are not in good health or shape to be able to help yourself as well those you care about. You have to get yourself in order. There is a difference in being selfish and having “self-respect”!

There is going to come a time in your life where you are going to need to know who you really are and what you should be doing. When this light bulb moment comes, you will have many choices to make. Believe me, some of those choices are going to be ones you are not going to want to make. Because you are going to have to do things you don’t want to do! Please, recognize the right things to do aren’t always easy or enjoyable to do. Sometimes our feelings can get in our way. Don’t trade pleasure over things that are the right things to do. It will come back to hurt you. “Every Time!” 

Not Everyone Will Agree With You:

Whatever you decide to do in life you will always have critics. You’re not going to please everyone. Self Respect 2This just won’t happen. You have to learn to respect who you are and why. You have the greatness of your own abilities within you. You are uniquely made and created. You have a purpose and a cause. You have things within you that you haven’t even tapped into yet. This is vital for you to know and understand. There are people who need you and what you have to offer and you don’t even know it! Truth be told, you have things to offer humanity and the world needs your contribution.
This is just one reason you have to walk in self-respect of who you really are. You can not live your life without being who you really are. This just won’t work. By living a “false life” of who you are and what you want to do in life will only cause you major stress and health issues. Keeping you from being all you were created to be in life. If you are not happy and pleased with where you are in life. If you Self-Respect-4are beside yourself. Get the right help you need. It may not be easy or even fun. However, it will be the right thing to do to help get you on track. Again, while you do this there are going to be times you will have to do things you won’t feel you want to do. You may hurt others as well emotionally because the right things are sometimes painful for you as well as others. It’s not being selfish needing to take care of yourself. Just remind yourself, you are no good to others if you are not able to care for yourself. 
I hope this post has helped someone. I am right now going through some life changes. I am no different from you. I hurt and I get hit with life as you do. Forgive yourself, do what is right, and move forward! We have to live our life’s purpose. We have to live as who we really are. If not, our health and our well-being will suffer. You are better than this. Just know, It Is Possible For You to Reposition Yourself. It’s going to take much work and effort. With this being said, remind yourself, if you are willing to work hard for what you want to have and do in life, by default you will be having and doing the things you didn’t want! This, my friend will affect your health and overall well-being! 

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